30 Days of Kink: Day 22 & 23

What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

There are many important aspects to keeping any relationship healthy, BDSM or vanilla. All those involved need to be honest and communicate openly. Those two things should create an atmosphere in the relationship of respect and trust. I’d say that the difference between a healthy BDSM relationship and a healthy vanilla relationship is that a BDSM relationship requires just a bit more trust; because in a BDSM relationship each partner’s physical safety is more often put in the hands of the other.

Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?

To be honest, I don’t think my interests or perspectives have really changed. The number of things I’m interested in or curious about have increased, but they’re all connected to my submissive personality and my sort of thrill/endorphin seeking behaviors.


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